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You Ain’t No Cowboy: Toxic Masculinity in Cowboy Culture

                                                                                                       Reagan Dailey
      The cowboy has long been a staple in American culture. The rough and tough image of the cowboy is used anywhere and everywhere as a macho and masculine figure. Cowboys in theory are well defined, but often carry multiple definitions depending upon who is asked. A cowboy can simply be a job, a way of life, or a culture. Cowboy as a job is relatively easy to define, as a person who earns their paycheck by pushing cattle. Cattle drives may not exist anymore, but cowboys are still alive and thriving. The cowboy way of life can be just as easily defined as carrying an intense passion for the values associated with cowboys, while not necessarily earning a living from them. The traditional cowboy may have only been those who do earn a living from cattle, but the definition has changed significantly. Modern cowboy culture challenges classic definitions and presents a new problem. Toxic masculinity is beginning to seep into cowboy culture through all aspects of life, poisoning the positive view of cowboys held by many. This becomes troublesome as a marketing ploy, due to the view held by many that “country boys rule the world” (Campbell 1) in politics, companies, and anywhere else they are allowed to exist. The image of the cowboy is ruined by preconceived false notions, television, and children’s characters. The only way to correct this issue is to stop targeted ads featuring images of the American cowboy twisted into messages of toxic masculinity is to redefine the classic cowboy. The culture surrounding cowboys remained stagnant for many years, and is long overdue for a serious makeover. In order to address and correct the issue, one must first address the beast that cowboy culture has ultimately morphed into.

     The modern day cowboy unfortunately carries with them a definition only upheld by Hollywood cowboys such as John Wayne, Buffalo Bill, and Jessie James. While these characters provide ample entertainment in movies, this image of the cowboy does not hold up to scrutiny. The very beginnings of the cowboy, then described as “dependable and hard-working when sober but vicious menaces when drunk” (Courtwright 86) are inconsistent with both the John Wayne mentality and the modern day cowboy. In the early days of the cowboy, most descriptions provided were even more unflattering than the aforementioned account. The John Wayne view of the cowboy is one of a suave and heroic ladies’ man. The cowboy exists to rescue the damsel in distress, and ride off into the sunset. Neither of these descriptions are true to the modern day cowboy. One fact that seems to hold consistently between both of these narratives is toxic masculinity. A cowboy must be tough as nails with no exceptions and is the ultimate figure of masculinity. Thus, the cowboy is often used in entertainment, marketing, and political campaigns. Unfortunately, the usage of the cowboy image has turned sour. In popular belief, “masculinity is the polar opposite of femininity” (Myers 126), which gives rise to the womanizing cowboy. The womanizing cowboy is born of a need to show the superiority and masculinity of cowboys by those who idolize them. Born of a need to emulate the suave nature of John Wayne, this idea quickly spread and twisted into a concept much uglier than originally intended. The natural consequence is that this negative connotation of the word cowboy is translated into the many entertainment, marketing, and political campaigns in which a cowboy is featured. This is especially harmful to the extremely malleable minds of youth, both male and female.

      The ideas presented and corrupted by toxic masculinity are often introduced to children by television programs. One example in particular is a scene within the popular television show Hannah Montana,​ which follows the double life of a pop star and cowgirl named Miley Cyrus. A new character, Rico, is introduced to the audience and wishes to impress Miley. While speaking to her father (Robby Ray), Rico comes to the understanding that he must dance to impress Miley. Miley’s father is skeptical, at best, of his strange movements. While Robby Ray “didn’t accuse Rico of being gay, he did problematize his feminine motion. To correct the problem, Robby Ray decided that Rico should “‘get in touch with his inner cowboy’” (Myers 126). There are two glaringly obvious problems with these actions normalized by â€‹Hannah Montana​, the first being that feminine expression in boys and men is wrong. Robby Ray also strongly suggested that Rico is homosexual, which is also insinuated as deeply wrong. This singular scene within a seemingly harmless children’s program introduces harmful concepts to the malleable minds of young children. The addition of Robby Ray’s assertion that Rico should “cowboy up” is merely salt in an already stinging wound. This statement divides men and women in the eyes of the youth viewing the television show. A cowboy in the eyes of many young boys is the epitome of what it means to be a man. “Cowboy up” divides this awesome, heroic figure from women and places him solely into the category of males. Characters such as Rico are exceedingly dangerous, as they symbolize undesirable characteristics in a man. These characters are “consistently feminized, with femininity signifying weakness and failure. Traditionally masculine characters often lurked in the background, reminding viewers what a ‘real man’ looked like” (Myers 126). Instilling such ideas into young children is bad practice at best and detrimental to the core values of society at worst. Once these ideas are introduced, they are centralized and adopted into the very core of what these children believe in. More importantly, these ideas are poison to the very idea of equality.

     As previously mentioned, television programs introduced early on in children’s lives that display a strong correlation between the cowboy and masculinity can lead to a lessened sense of equality between men and women. Boys exposed to television shows exclusively exhibiting traditional masculinity often feel obligated to behave in such a way that closely follows that of the characters in the show. Characters in shows such as these designed to exhibit classic signs of masculinity are often modeled after the cowboy. This is evident in the example â€‹Hannah Montana used previously. Thus, a culture of hegemonic masculinity is formed, meaning that an entire generation of young boys can and will behave in much the same way. Hegemonic masculinity is incredibly dangerous. This practice “serves to legitimize patriarchy and heterosexuality, guaranteeing the dominant position of men and heterosexuals and the subordination of women and non-heterosexuals” (Johnson 386). Whether inadvertent or purposeful, the culture created by children’s programming, such as â€‹Hannah Montana, â€‹is infinitely more harmful than positive. While not actively suppressive of women and men displaying characteristics seen as feminine rather than masculine, hegemonic masculinity does create a sense of entitlement in heterosexual males. Hegemonic masculinity “fosters access to power for those who are heterosexual and male. Therefore, hegemonic masculinity is a powerful tool used to secure and maintain the current social order” (Johnson 387). Obviously, women and non-heterosexual men are expected to sit quietly beneath them in the social order. This superiority inspired in males due to their apparently superior masculinity is accredited to them simply for fitting into the category of a cowboy, and brings nothing but suppression. These problems discussed are serious and must be fixed to prevent further decay to the image and values of the cowboy.

      The John Wayne mentality and view of the cowboy must be corrected. Unfortunately, it is entirely wrong and devoid of fact. The definition of a cowboy is constantly evolving, and is currently almost exclusively in disagreement with the commonly held view of the cowboy. A suave, heroic, and arguably sexist ladies’ man simply does not support the full truth of the cowboy anymore. The modern world and the growing movements within it leave no room for the definition of a cowboy as a “masculine persona of authority and control” (Campbell 1). A new, strong definition must be forged that prevents perversion of the critical values conveyed. Without the previous definition widely used by almost everyone, there is nothing to be twisted into a marketing ploy. Political campaigns, marketing, and advertisements will be forced to abandon the image of the cowboy if the status of the ultimate masculine figure is lost. Should a new definition be crafted for the cowboy, the notions of many people would be challenged. There is also the issue of how one would go about changing people’s minds. The cowboy is a pop culture phenomenon, featuring in countless movies, television shows, and songs. There are multiple lifetimes worth of contradictory material to any new definition proposed. Convincing the general public of any idea that goes against these movies, television shows, and songs that they have essentially grown up with is a huge undertaking. However, this is a task well worth the effort. Simply changing a few minds will do wonders for the perception of cowboys. This is only the beginning of changing this problematic figure into a hero worth looking up to. The next step in repairing the problematic nature of cowboy culture is protecting youth from the harmful reach of television programs which send the wrong message regarding masculinity.

       Television programs targeted towards the extremely flexible minds of children can be extremely dangerous. This dangerous nature was revealed previously using â€‹Hannah Montanna​ as an example. To correct the problem proposed by children’s television shows, a solution must be utilized that starts with the content of the television shows themselves. Technology has an increasingly large place in the lives of everyone, from children to adults. Asking that children be shielded from television to correct the issue at hand would be impractical if not impossible. Therefore, no such solution will be proposed. In the instance that a solution such as this is proposed, there is no doubt that it would quickly fail and have no impact whatsoever on the true problem in desperate need of attention. Solutions must be proposed to writers and producers that work directly on the script and basis of shows frequently watched by impressionable children. These people must be held accountable for helping raise hegemonic masculinity conformed children. Hegemonic masculinity runs so rampant in our society that “Some scholars have insisted that we begin to cultivate non-hegemonic masculinities” (Myers 128). In other words, highly respected academic scholars and researchers suggest that parents should begin to encourage and foster respect for women and non-heterosexual men at a young age rather than let their first experience with masculinity be negative, such as those seen in children’s television programming. Better yet, do not expose children to hegemonic masculinity at all. Stop widespread purveyors of hegemonic masculinity at the source. Stop hegemonic masculinity from entering children’s programming. Unfortunately, “Children are affected by and grapple with cultural frames,” (Myers 130) both good and bad. This clearly includes both the negative and misinformed aspects of masculinity. This is sadly a solution to just one problem presented by toxic masculinity in cowboy culture, but it can be used in part as a solution to other problems.

        To combat the hegemonic masculinity often associated with cowboy culture, the solutions previously discussed for other similar issues are helpful. Hegemonic masculinity stems from both the John Wayne mentality often associated with cowboys and children’s television programs that feature masculine cowboy esque characters. Due to the source of hegemonic masculinity, the solutions used for the roots of this idea will have a relatively high degree of success. Feminism will also play a large role in combating hegemonic masculinity. Since the very purpose of hegemonic masculinity is to create and perpetuate the “Subordination of women and non-heterosexuals,” (Johnson 386) women and non-heterosexuals should refuse to submit to the coercions of hegemonic masculinity. Defying the very purpose of this idea will derail any hopes of continuing and encouraging the spread of both toxic masculinity and hegemonic masculinity. While the widespread reach of hegemonic masculinity can be suffocating at times, any attempt at fighting back will continue the ongoing battle against this idea. Once again, stopping the problem at the source will also be massively beneficial to the attempts at stopping the spread of toxic masculinity in cowboy culture. This would mean not allowing children to be exposed to such ideas, or making a point to expose them to positive representations of masculinity early on. Another solution previously discussed is changing the very definition of the word cowboy to exclude any possible mention or insinuation of masculinity. While these solutions may be difficult at first, the end product will be well worth the effort. The purification of cowboy culture is about more than just cowboys, it is about erasing the harmful effects of hegemonic masculinity from society. Unfortunately, cowboy culture is a large contributor to the spread of hegemonic masculinity and toxic masculinity. Therefore it is only natural that the eradication of both of these harmful ideas begins with cowboy culture.

       Toxic masculinity and hegemonic masculinity compliment each other in the worst sense. Often, one cannot exist without the other. This is especially true when speaking of cowboy culture. They exist only to wreak havoc on those they do not benefit. They plant seeds of hatred into the malleable minds of youth, poison a community of hard working honest people, and spread quickly and quietly. These challenges are difficult to overcome on their own, but often give rise to countless other issues as well. As discussed previously, there are solutions to these problems that require collaboration to succeed. They threaten the survival of the very essence of what it means to be a cowboy. The cowboy is a complex figure that has taken on many identities, never settling for too long on a singular definition. The beginnings of the word, however, have always held true. The rapid growth of toxic and hemogenic masculinity has almost reached this. This is why the actions discussed must be taken quickly and decisively in order to stunt their growth. With cooperation and determination, they can be entirely stopped. The future of the cowboy and today’s youth depends upon the outcome of the war on toxic and hemogenic masculinity. If they are allowed to continue, years will be lost in the fight for equality. Women and non-heterosexual men will lose their battle for respect and equality, and face unbelievably hard work to gain these basic rights back. However, the battle begins with the singular person. Just one person can and will make a huge difference. The battle starts now, and the whole of society must work together to face off against toxic and homogenic masculinity. Everyone must join the fight, one by one.

The Foster System

Ashley Bertelsen

        It does not matter how old you are, you could end up in this place. You could be moved any day they want to move you, you could be at school when they show up to take you away. Friends, siblings, and loved ones do not matter to the people who work here. You could be at a birthday party for your best friend and they take you away from him or her. You may never go back to them, you may be moved to a different county, you may never see you family again. In this place you do not know what will happen next. They have reasons for moving you, of course such as, abuse, neglect, running, basically anything against the law. Some of us are in this place, and that’s why they do not want to make any friends because they have been moved to many times and are now scared to get attached to people. 

        Some people are blocking people out of their lives, others are trying not to break down in front of everyone around them. The only age limit for this place is eighteen years old because you are a legal adult at eighteen, you could be a day old and be put here. For some people this is a good place because they got out of their homes when they wanted to, other people wonder when they are going home. Some kids have disabilities that affect where they stay, some people have post traumatic stress disorder after all they’ve been through. Some people, like me for instance, have built a wall around their heart because of their past history. There are people who have a bloody history and never want to live through that ever again. This place can be both good and bad for people, this place can help people find a family, this place can tear families apart, Every kid in this place has something to hide. I hide my emotions, I block people out, I push people out, I may be happy on the outside but on the inside I am broken. People think I’m mean, rude, a complete bitch, but nobody knows what I have gone through. Nobody knows what I have to deal with. Nobody knows how it feels to know that you are not wanted in your own home. Nobody knows what it feels like to live in fear. How many people know what it’s like to go home only to be physically, mentally, and emotionally abused. There are kids in our country that have scars to show what they have been through, they have no idea when their next meal will be, they have no idea who is their new parents. The kids in this place are listening to kids cry because they do not get the new iPhone, while they’re wondering what’s going to happen to me today. These kids are wanting to be home with their parents, they would give up everything to be with their families but this place decides whether they’re going home or not. Kids, teenagers, one of them being me, toddlers, infants, could all be wanting their families, they could be wanting to be in the same home as their brothers or sisters but this place can’t do that. Families are separated, torn apart, some people never even got to say goodbye to their siblings. The only thing that will get you out of this place is you changing, your parents changing, getting a new home, aging out, I will never go home to my family. People do not understand what pain is, they do not understand why these kids are like they are today.

         Many of us may look like there is nothing wrong on the outside but on the inside we are broken, we are crying, we’re scared, tired, worried, we always look for the worst in every situation, wondering how long they’re going to stay in the home they’re in now. How many people know the real me in this school? Nobody knows the real me, I’ve built up a wall blocking everyone out of my life because I have been hurt way to many times, I can’t afford to get hurt anymore. Some kids do not know how to love, some people only know how to hate. The kids in this place are in some of your classes, friend groups and you may not even realize it. This is why people need to watch how they act toward everyone. You never know they may be going through so many things at once that they are breaking at the seams. So many of us break down and everything we do is being tracked no matter what we do good or bad. This is a place that could be both good and bad for so many of us.

I am Scared of Being a Woman

Jade Essman

     I walk down the dimly lit sidewalk, my cat shaped weapon and keys are held tightly in my hand. Although I want to stare at the ground and shut myself out, I am constantly observing my surroundings. While I walk, I flinch at every small sound I hear as I try to hurry back home. When I see anyone else walking my way, I step aside and allow them to pass while I hope that they do not turn around. I hear a loud bang from the dumpster behind me and take a quick look up at the door of the apartment. Quickly, I run up the stairs and lock the door behind me as fast as possible. I did not bother to look behind me or out the peephole in the door; all I did was go to my room and hide within the comfort of my bed. This was only a trip to take out the trash at my old apartment. 

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     It seems sad to say that the simple fact that I am a woman makes me fear for my life. Women in the modern world live in constant fear of the toxic masculinity of men and their desire to assert dominance over others. With the use of modern media and it’s attention brought towards these horrendous acts towards women, a fear has crept upon us. 

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     The rise of social media has not only encouraged people to reconnect with their old high school peers, but it has also granted press the ability to produce more coverage of current events. With the new media in the 21st century, the news has brought attention to kidnappings, rape, and other forms of sexual harassment in the world. Now that many people have easy access to the media, the news of these acts have struck fear in the hearts of women everywhere. Not only has the media been able to inform many about the crimes against women, but it has formed a platform where it encourages men to partake in the criminal offenses. Social media has discouraged men from displaying their emotions to the public and insists that they put on a tough façade. These men then form misogynistic attitudes and begin to belittle women and their rights. Not only has social media hit an all-time high, but the popularity of dating apps has also increased. These dating apps grant easy access to sexual predators, allowing them to lure women out somewhere private. Not only are several women violently sexually assaulted, but these assaults also exists in “casual” occasions. The U.S. Equal Opportunity Employment Commision says roughly 25% to 85% of women experience sexual harassment in their workplace. Some people bring attention to these traumatic events, while others pass it off as natural and say women should accept it. Every year we perform a teaser for our fall play. A few years ago we produced the show, And a Child Shall Lead, a story that educates it’s audience about the children in ghettos during the holocaust. At certain points throughout the teaser, students in the audience began to cat-call women on stage. Not only was this extremely inappropriate considering the context of the show, but it angered me that students thought it was okay to harass the female actors. 

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     While the media has done a significant amount of inciting fear and harm to women, the government and large corporations also take part in encouraging the social separation. If someone enters a local store and look to purchase shampoo, one that targets a female audience, is significantly more expensive when compared to one for men or promoted as unisex. Not only do everyday hygienic products increase the price for women, but women have to purchase additional items for their menstruation. There is no insurance coverage, there is no discount, and there is still a sales tax for this purchase. In recent events, the media blew up over the new abortion laws in several states. The government is enforcing laws over a woman’s body, telling her what she can and cannot do. Upon the release of Ohio’s new “Heartbeat Bill,” there was an uproar against the state and it’s legislature. The bill forbid the act of abortion after a heartbeat is detected, which is heard around six weeks. An average woman does not know she is pregnant until about five or six weeks, which does not allow much time for a woman to receive an abortion. Not only does the time not check out, but the government was saying that a woman cannot follow through with the surgery. Some argue that it is murder; I say that it is still a woman’s body and she can do as she pleases. If the government can stop a woman from receiving an abortion, where do they draw the line saying what a woman can or cannot do with her body? In the United States, doctors are allowed to refuse a patient tubal ligation; a tubal ligation is a procedure that sterilizes a woman through the process of “having the tubes tied.” Although there is a reversal surgery for this procedure, many doctors still advise women to not follow through with the ligation. Especially in younger women, they claim that the woman may change her mind about children. While this is an understandable argument, a doctor should not refuse a woman the right to her body. 

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      Society and the media have created a double standard between men and women in more ways than one. While men are encouraged for their flirting and flaunting, if a woman engages in the same activities, she is labeled and discriminated against. Nathaniel Hawthorne's “The Scarlet Letter” is an example of the prejudices that men inflict on women. Hawthorne’s protagonist, Hester Prynne, is labeled with a red “A” to signify that she engaged in adultery. Prynne was physically labeled after her affair and was mocked because of it in the days to follow. The misjudgements against women have existed for as long as life has and women continue to live in fear of not being treated as equal. Modern media has formed a barrier between men and women and has created a fear in the female mind that they are always being hunted. 

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     Today, I still walk with my keys in my hand whether I am in a group or if I walk alone. I am always checking to see if anyone is around me or if anyone seems suspicious. When I am out and about, I am scared of what might happen. Many women in today’s society feel the need to have a weapon with the at all times, me included, since we are genetically built smaller than men. Ever since I have been exposed to the horrors and the predators that exist in the world, I cannot focus on living my life to the fullest. Instead, I live in a world of fear and misjudgement towards my surroundings. It is astounding that we live in an oppressed world where women have to live in fear of someone that should be their equal. 

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